1.Write down your goals.
Do you want to quit your job? Move to the country? Have an urban farm? Homestead on the weekends? Live a more peaceful, mindful life?
We have been on the path to simplicity and homesteading for about seven years now. It started with reading books like “Animal, Vegetable, Mineral” by Barbara Kingsolver and wanting to learn to can and grow all of our own food. I started canning (badly) and started a sad little garden in the city. I got better!
Our goals were to leave our corporate world and busy suburban lifestyle. When Doug had a nervous breakdown our timeline sped up. Our goals constantly change and morph each year. We have a pretty extreme list of homesteading goals right now. I have no way of knowing if they will work, but I have written them down and am working towards them. Ask and you shall receive!
- Find a place with a small house that has a wood stove. Wood cook stove? Even better. Said house should be around $850 a month. Don’t laugh, it could happen.
- Small house would be on a bit of land. I need a full acre of garden. A quarter acre at the moment provides us with 90% of our vegetables during the summer and early fall, and 80% of the medicinal herbs I use. Another quarter acre could be the remaining herbs I need to grow, and additional fresh eating vegetables, plus a pond. A green house and hoop houses could inhabit part of the remaining half acre and a large preservation garden (everything I need to can) and a spice garden (Lord, do I spend a lot on spices!) could round out this menagerie of growing Eden. An orchard would be added as well and then of course we need room to walk about, have our goats, chickens, and ducks, and be able to ride our bikes to town.
- A composting toilet and gray water systems could be in place. We will use as little electricity as possible.
- This will be a haven for our friends, children, grandchildren, and wildlife.
2. Learn two skills.
There was a vast amount of information about homesteading lost with our past generations. We just don’t know how to do many of the basic skills and farmstead chores anymore. Find a mentor or a class or a great book and make a goal to learn two things. Two things a month, or two things a year, whatever works for you.
A few years ago on this homestead I wanted chickens and to preserve almost all of our food for winter. The next year I wanted goats and alpacas and to learn to spin. I learned to spin, didn’t like it, didn’t care for the alpacas, gave away the alpacas, fell in love with goats, got more chickens, and canned over 500 items. Homesteading is constant rearranging of goals. This year we got bees and ducks and started growing almost all of our medicinal herbs. We dug up the driveway to make more space to garden. Last year we dug up the front and side yards. Last year I learned to make soft cheese, this year hard cheese. Doug has learned fencing methods and how to milk a goat.
We have learned what we enjoy, what we don’t, what’s a waste of time, what’s imperative to our homesteading journey. Learning everything at once is not possible and would be overwhelming. Just pick two skills. What do you want to learn?
3. Get Money Savvy
Rethink your finances. Get out of debt. Stay out of debt. But don’t wait for pristine credit before you make the jump.
Our BIGGEST mistake that will continue to haunt us for years to come was getting into debt. We had fourteen credit cards, owned our house (or the bank did), had two car payments and had amazing, perfect credit. Ironic, isn’t it? We took the Dave Ramsey program at our church six years ago and it changed our lives. We paid off and cut up all of our credit cards. We do not have any still. We paid off a lot of debt. We then lost our house and one of our cars in the crash and our credit went to crap. Which didn’t matter at the time because we were content renting for half the price of our house in Parker. We have everything we need but there is the little matter of $50 grand from the second mortgage that still says it is an open account and $25,000 for the student loans we still owe. There should be a money back guarantee. If you don’t use your degree you should get a refund. I do not see, with the interest rates the way they are, how we would ever in this lifetime pay these off. If you are in debt, get out. If you are not, do not venture into that pitfall.
Save a hundred dollars a month. Pay yourself first. Put it in a coffee can or the bank.
4. Simplify. REALLY Simplify!
Every hour you work is money spent on something. How many hours do you have to work to make enough to pay for the car? Gas? The house? Cable? Cell phones? Restaurants? Is it worth it? What do you need? How much time would you like?
It goes against every grain of our society to make less. The mantra is make more, spend more, the more you make the more you can give, the more you can have, the more secure you will be. Wrong. I highly recommend you read “Radical Simplicity” by Jim Merkel. It outlines our footprint on this planet as well as radically simplifying your life. If you work less, you leave more work for others. If you consume less, you leave more for others. If you have less, you have to work less (this does not include the good kind of work on your own time on a farmstead). The less you consume, the less resources you take from the planet, less pollution, less animal habitat loss, less unfairness. Do you need a huge house? Do you need to buy all of that packaged stuff? Does it really bring happiness?
My goals are to lessen even more. We are stressing over bills still and have too much stuff. What is it with the seven sets of (gorgeous) antique dishes in my cupboards? All the clothes I don’t wear? The jewelry I don’t wear? Where is our money going? I am now writing it all down, the spending for each day. See where the leaks are. See what we don’t need. What we don’t need to buy. How much is everything really costing us?
And despite the stressing of leaching money, I want to make less. No, I have not lost my mind. I want to stay beneath the poverty line. I have all the food I need, I am looking at lessening my rent, getting rid of my water bill and most of the electric bill, driving less, less gas money and wear and tear. High taxes? Don’t have them. Where is your money going?
I am ready to simplify even more. Make less money. Offer medicines on a donation basis so that everyone can afford them. Does cable television make us happy? We don’t really watch it, so no. That glass of wine in the evenings? Yes, I don’t have to give that up. By freeing up your money and where you spend it, you have only what you need and love. And lots of time to watch the sunset and play with baby goats.
5. Just Do It!
No more five year plan, maybe next year, only if he gets a raise, or when the kids move out. There are no guarantees you will live long enough to live the life you really want. Now is the time to act!
What can I say? I have friends my age in their forties heading on to the Great Beyond and ones in their eighties who are too tired to do any more. What is the best time to pursue your goals, cut your spending drastically, move to the place of your dreams, and start living self sufficiently? Now is a real good time. And if you cannot move yet or don’t want to, if you don’t want to quit your job or change much at all, just learn a few skills. Cheese making? Crocheting? And urban garden? Simplifying and homesteading can be done on many levels.
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This is an excellent post, full of wisdom. I second every one of these suggestions. On our journey we did some things right, and we did many things wrong. It’s important to be flexible and adjust as you learn. We built fences that don’t work for goats. Then later decided to get goats. So we had to change the fences. Some of the things we planned to do never worked out. Other things we’re doing well now (and enjoying) were not part of our plans. Getting out of debt–and staying out–is crucial. We live in a culture that devalues homesteading wisdom and bombards us with messages to buy, borrow and spend. I highly recommend getting rid of the TV. Thanks again for this post and all the great wisdom you share on this blog.
I appreciate your compliment and I appreciate your blog. You are always giving good advice, inspiring, and making folks think. Thanks for reading mine!
Love your post! You are so right!! Barbara Kingsolver’s book started me on my journey to homesteading and growing my own food!
Nothing better! Now I’m obsessed!
Wonderful article! I’m taking it to heart! I had my first ever anxiety attack last night over my job, bills, a broken down car, and crazy young adult kids. I have got to change something. Simplify, and cut bills/debt this coming year is my first goal. I do can and dehydrate a little, but will keep learning. Thanks for writing the article.
Good luck to you! Keep doing just a few things at a time. And take care of yourself! Life is way too short to stress. I was where you are not very long ago and I can only tell you to hold onto your hat, it will pass soon enough!